Category «Psychology»

Quotes of Haruki Murakami about the most important

Quotes of Haruki Murakami

Sometimes it is difficult to find words that would precisely describe our condition. We can experience a lot of emotions at the same time, but be unable to distinguish all of them. Human soul is very versatile and unique. But there are people who are able to touch the important strings of the heart. And …

Important principles of parenting

Important principles of parenting

Parenting might be one of the most responsible tasks in our lives, if not the most responsible. Having children may sound easy, but is it actually that simple? Parenting in general doesn’t require considerable effort, but good parenting is extremely sophisticated. Children need have not only formal parents, they need mother and father who will …

Seven rules of psychology

Seven rules of psychology

1. The rule of mirrors – People around me are my mirrors. They reflect my own personality, characteristics which often are not perceived by me. For example, if someone is rude to me, then that’s what I want, I am letting that to happen. If someone deceives me again and again, it means that I …

Most common dreams and their meanings

Most common dreams and their meanings

A dream is an assembly of images, ideas, emotions and sensations. Dream usually occurs in our minds during certain stages of sleep. Although the purpose of dreaming is not fully understood, dreams have been a topic of scientific speculation as well as a subject of philosophical and religious interest throughout history. The scientific study of …

Why people don’t help each other?

Why people don’t help each other?

Humans are highly developed creatures who can feel such things as compassion and sense of responsibility. Thanks to this, people can expect help if in trouble, but, unfortunately, people mostly ignore requests for help in critical situations, like just passing by when a woman is being attacked by some criminals, or not responding in any …

Analyzing your relationships

Analyzing your relationships

When a fresh student enters college or university, he doesn’t know how to behave, he doesn’t know the rules, basically he doesn’t know how anything works there at all. Principles of school are often not relevant, so he needs to learn everything from the beginning. The student gathers data from professors and elder students and …

Interpersonal conflicts

Interpersonal conflicts

Communicating with other people means that we have to understand each other. Some people we reach understanding with easily and instantly, some people we have to argue with to reach an agreement. We can argue and compromise quickly, or we can debate for hours and get not even remotely close to understanding. To better understand …

People who are impudent

People who are impudent

Everyone has met or will meet insolent people in their life. It is a very distasteful phenomenon indeed. An impudent person is sure of his rightness even if his position is completely wrong and even if you are able to prove his mistakenness. Such an individual is extremely confident about his inerrancy and will heatedly …

Regretful decisions

Regretful decisions

Every day in our life we make hundreds of decisions. We rely on experience, knowledge, listen to advices of other people, or maybe our intuition determines our actions. Some decisions can bring happiness, ease, a great accomplishment. Sometimes a decision may seem appropriate at first, but then it falls hard on us, crushing everything we …

How to cope with anger

How to cope with anger

In the world where stress is in every corner it is important to control your negative emotions. And today we are going to talk about anger. We know what anger is. It’s a nasty combination of frustration and annoyance, but what happens when the person loses control over it? With losing control, you let the …

5 reasons why losing friends can be good, not bad

5 reasons why losing friends can be good

There is such a thing in our life as losing friends. The reasons could be different: moving to other place, being busy and passionate about your job, and many-many other causes. Losing friends can have either positive or negative impact on your life. You certainly can’t tell if it’s good or bad like differing the …

Never dump your stress on to your children

Never dump your stress

Parents take care of their children until they become adults. Their task is not only to feed and dress the baby, but also to help their children to overcome confusing emotions and experiences. They should know how to handle difficulties, not be acussing, understand and help their kids while facing problems. But, unfortunately, this exact …

Being jealous is not good for you

Being jealous is not good for you

We all sometimes feel jealous of people we meet in our lives. Be they friends or strangers. Jealous means I want something you have, but I don’t have it. This feeling can lead to complications especially if it brings frustration and stress. At this point the person who experiences such feelings is the one to …